Being Present For Union

 

One of the biggest blocks to Union is being attached to what was (or what we think was) - mulling over or trying to fix in our minds what we think went wrong, or mistakes we made. 

The basis of the law of attraction is: what you focus on is what you experience / manifest - ie reality is based on what we observe. This is also shown in science in quantum physics

 

“Quantum entanglement is a bizarre, counterintuitive phenomenon that explains how two subatomic particles can be intimately linked to each other even if separated by billions of light-years of space.”

( quote from www.space.com)

When we resist what we don’t want, we energetically push against it there for putting our attention on it, focusing on it, giving it energy and thus creating / attracting / manifesting more of the same. So when we constantly mull over the past we are reliving what we don’t want. Sometimes it is needed to go over old stuff to recognise our mistakes, learn our lessons, create solutions or take what worked to build on it, but again that is about focusing on the positives and what is wanted to create more of what is wanted. When we are on the right path - ie in alignment with our inner desires and needs then we are focused on them, giving attention to what we truly desire to the point it becomes our dominant vibration (energy state) to then manifest it into physical being. Feelings and thoughts the more they are given attention become reality. being present means being open to what IS, not resisting past, present or future, and allowing ourselves to be open to the opportunities presented, taking inspired action (rather than forced action driven by fears created by what we think we should do or have been taught we *have* to do) based on our own desires and intuition. 

So if your Twin Flame is married and you constantly focus on that fact, instead of the things in your life that bring you joy asides your TF, then you will keep experiencing what you don’t want. Put the focus as much as you can on the reality of the connection, the love, the joy, the possibilities you desire, and what FEELS right and good. Pushing against these things and not believing we are good enough, handing our happiness over to our Twins making them responsible for our feels will never work. 

Most of us have experienced the intense trauma of (negative) karmic relationships, some so bad it has left us with disabilities, PTSD, chronic illness and more - things I will address in future posts. To be with our Twin Flames, we need to let go of the things that drove us into those types of dynamics, deprogramming distorted thinking, and (re)learning to love ourselves, through self care, and aligned thinking to our true feelings.

How do we become more present - well, FUN is a good start! Re-connecting to your inner-child and healing those wounds by giving yourself the fun stuff you need to heal and thus connect with your Twin Flame! Of course we need our basic needs met too - but fun is part of this to keep us aligned, to help us relax and play also helps us to *adult* better too. Approaching life with a more child like curiosity and playfulness can help us open up to all the good stuff meant for us. What’s fun for you may not be someone one’s idea of fun, and it will never be something that (intentionally) harms another. It will come from a place of pure unbridled joy and self expression. It could be something sporty, or arty, music, acting, and it will also likely enable the adult side of you to utilise your skills and talents too. Playing games enriches the mind and soul, engages the body and gives us what we need to connect with others. Sharing or body doubling during these activities will create bonds and friendships and also be a way to connect with out Twin Flame. 

More adult focuses can be engaged and mixed up, so if you want to be sexual with your TF bringing in a playful element will make it more fun and enjoyable, whether that’s in the lead up to it or the act itself. 

If you struggle with any mental health issues, please find a good therapist that can help you work through your issues, find people you can share and talk with, a support group, as well as your own self directed healing work. 

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Cycles

 Once again I’ve cycled back to TSU after doing a reading about how best to proceed with doing readings, whether general or Twin Flame focused. Whilst Union is indeed still my focus, more so it’s the inner union with Self that matters most, for the relationship we have with our Selves precedes and impacts all others.

The “dominant intention” as advised by Abraham-Hicks is to feel good - the soul aligned, inspiration, feeling the oneness and the flow kind of good.

I have gone through many years of intense karmic cycles, truths, healing and growth to come back more open and more accepting of the messiness of being human and not trying to deal with the TF stuff like I am some sort of perfectly perfect guru with no ego (which is insanely impossible anyway). There are too many abusers using spiritual stuff to ensnare victims promising happiness and using it to control, get money and harm others.

My journey has been one of much trauma and many of you I am sure have also endured your own karmic situations that have left you feeling unworthy, unlovable and unable to have healthy relationships. The thought of a TF can be both overwhelming and enticing, and I assure you whilst it is not MEANT to be something that makes you suffer, when we do not understand, or our ego is triggered, it can be an intensely painful experience. Unlike karmics though the Twin Flame never sets out to intentionally harm us and is often trying to protect us and them from being harmed by unhealed wounds that may lash out and cause destruction. We cycle from magnetised love attraction, karmic mirror triggers to being repelled to heal alone or in other ways before we come back and repeat until we are healed ENOUGH to heal together and grow and expand within Union.

However long you have been on this journey, whether hours, weeks, months or even decades, please, don’t give up on love, SURRENDER to it and let it take you where you need to go and be who you need to be. 

Welcome to TSU and I hope I maybe of service to you on your path,

Blessings

Bex

Over The Years…

 Over the years, I have done online and face-to-face readings, Audio, Skype, Emailed etc including the Mind Body Soul Event in Peterborough and The Umbrella Festival in Northampton.

The Umbrella Festival Northampton

I also worked as a reader in Glastonbury for a while at the Assembly rooms every week a few years back.

I have also worked in a cafe briefly doing “Tea & Tarot” in Wincanton - that was fun for while!

Welcome …

 … to Twin Soul Unity.

Hiya! My name is Bex. I am a Non Binary Twin Flame (They/Them) and I have been on my journey awakened since 2009. 

Some of you may remember me from 2010 when I originally set up Twin Soul Unity, but I moved through many other names and identities trying to find myself and working through ego fears as I ran away or pushed away my Twin in my frustrations. 

At the time of writing I am still in separation as I had a lot more healing to do than I realised as I had yet to discover I had been in a narcissistic relationship with my past Karmic Partner, and that I had a lot of other health issues, and that I am also neurodivergant, waiting for assessments for Autism and ADHD. 

Along with C-PTSD and other trauma related issues I also had to learn about, I also have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome & Fibromyalgia which I am working to heal slowly. 

It is my hope and I have been guided that I will one day be working with my Twin Flame here on Twin Soul Unity as I have stated in the past my work would be far more credible if I was in Union - although many client testimonials will state how I have helped them on their own journey and many of those are now in Union with or in the moving into Union stages with their Twin Flames.

I recognise that as I have been guided to “get others on the bus first” before me and my TF can come together, the work I do will also help me on my path, healing and learning through the connections I make.

I cannot give timings as things are always open to change based on the choices we make, but I can give information based on what I feel in the moment and the possible trajectory your path may take based on current circumstances. I endeavour to help you align with who you truly are so you may come together in Union with your Twin Flame. It is my firm belief that non of us are meant to suffer and struggle alone, although many of us do, the connections we make along the way can teach us valuable lessons and give us tools we need to help us grow and heal into who we need to be to be in Union with our TFs.

I leave it up to those of you who choose to follow my work to decide if what I do resonates and can support you into Union - if it feels right and good to you then Yay! If not then all good, I’m not for you either for now, or there is another reader better suited for your needs.

Big Huggs & Sparkly Vibes

Bex

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