Like any feeling shame exists for a reason, and it indicates somewhere our boundaries were violated. Perhaps we didn’t have the awareness, capacity, ability to recognise or enforce those boundaries, or what happened to us was so terrible we couldn’t be prepared but we turned the blame inward instead of seeing it for what it was. Acknowledge your shame and listen to it, as in WHY it exists, and accept it, but then you can counter it with truths and loving talk - and if needed learn the emotional skills to deal with the cause or guard against future incidents. If the shame is from something YOU did to violate another’s boundaries, do what you can to make it right, apologise, heal and if it’s not accepted or a dynamic ends / changes because of it know you did the best you could to repair and move on… sitting in shame helps no-one and moving through it with understanding and compassion will help you heal and move towards union 🔥💖🔥
To help transmute shame and blocks to Union try out my Cosmic Diamond Violet Flame Transmutation Meditation (Music Only) where you visualise the energy of the flame burn away what is no longer desired or needed in your energy and transmute it into better things for you (and your Twin Flame) - the full version will be up soon.
Over the course of a couple of days this week I put together a fun simple deck of cards to play with - you can buy them online here - the cards have full meanings written on the back, no booklet. I will do more blog posts about combined meanings and interpretations in the future, but of course you can read them intuitively how you like as well.
And of course you can use the fun GIF version for FREE.
During this moon phase you will likely see manifestation of what you asked for / focused on during the past moon cycle and hopefully it will be what you desired over fears and what was unwanted! Either way you get to see what has been hidden and is ready to come to light at this time, before harvesting the rewards and deciding what next in upcoming moon cycles.
The Hermit (reversed)
At this time, there may be a feeling of pervasive loneliness as you feel the sting of separation from your Twin Flame, and you haven’t successfully yet managed to “manifest” union, perhaps only more of the same single lonely life you have been experiencing for a while, or desiring real love whilst trapped in a karmic relationship also making you feel lonely. The mirror between Twins is the same at the core level - both feel lonely and are seeking love outside of themselves in each other but there is a need to flip the script and focus on the inner love to manifest the outer love of your Twin Flame - you do not need to seek what you already have within - their love. Notice the love of your Twin and accept it to help you clarify your own inner truth and next step as no one else can tell you what that is at this time, this is for you to discern intuitively and act upon as necessary. If you do this, by the next full moon on April 13th you could be in Union with your Twin Flame!
Take a break from “twin flame stuff” when you feel this resonates by chilling out and relaxing doing fun stuff, playing games, hobbies etc to help you re-align to yourself. Be in the now and you’ll find your Twin Flame can connect with where you are at rather than “chasing your energy” constantly trying to catch up! Did you see men in black 3 when Agent K told Agent J to take a break from the problem and go and eat pie at a cafe? Then what they needed turned up when they were there!
You need the space to get your energy up and back into alignment with your inner being, then you’ll be ready to be with your Twin Flame and move into deeper union with them. Once you have chilled enough you may find they come to you, as you are open, relaxed and receptive enough to allow them in a positive way. Then you can go from there!
Side note, you may want to buy yourself a funky rainbow mug similar to this for one extra feel good vibes! I bought one from Amazon that’s super cute! FYI I don’t get paid for recommending this! https://amzn.eu/d/2vat19Y 🌈 ☕️
As we enter Marches Gibbous Moon on the 9th, it’s time to review how things are going and refine the process if things aren’t quite right before building momentum into your desires coming up to the full moon on the 14th.
Unsurprisingly we have the Emperor reversed, which indicates patriarchal and harmful karmic energies - from inner distorted immature masculine issues to outward events played on the world stage as seen with the examples of Trump, Musk, Zuckerberg and many many more, we are being asked to question our own attitudes towards the feminine energies within us, and where we are handing our power over to others thus leaking energy and robbing us of our own autonomy. It’s time to take responsibility and accountability in our lives, rather than holding onto a victim mentality (not the same as being a true victim!) and start making empowering choices to lead us away from those that would harm us. From controlling bosses, to abusive karmic partners, things may come to a head soon if we do not review and refine our approach to life and our desires especially when it comes to union with our Twin Flames. If things are going okay or better for you, you may be asked to watch out for these things potentially popping up to challenge you, but ultimately avoiding them by taking right action to lead you towards love will keep you safe.
If you are struggling with your situation and need some advice from Spirit on how to deal with karmics, you can book a reading with me via my kofi store.
It seems this is applicable to both twin flames in different ways. Spirit suggests write a list of your responsibilities. From chores to health to business, and see where you can get help and support, delegate and re-prioritise.
Drop anything not yours or worthy of your time and energy. Release the unnecessary and you’ll both find space opens up in your mind and lives for each other to enter peacefully, easily and without the trigger into overwhelm - the most important thing is to bump up the twin flame stuff to a top priority - but not at the expense of feeling good, and wellbeing / health!!!
If you’ve been avoiding or hiding from your twin flame, and can’t understand why you feel unable to do anything, your nervous system is in overwhelm and can’t handle anything “new” to your system so you maybe clinging to old familiar patterns still which is why connecting with your twin flame in the physical feels so hard - it’s because you need to drop other things in your life to create space.
If you feel pressured by the demands and dictations of others, now is the time to exert healthy boundaries and learn to say no! By saying no to others, you are saying yes to yourself. You need breathing space at this time to re-align your energy and to regulate your emotions and nervous system.
There is a sense of for some you are on the verge of an emotional breakdown because you are not taking care of your emotional wellbeing which includes allowing love in to your life - you are starving yourself of the love you need, (from your twin and others!) and too in the head trying to get things done.
Don’t try to do it all at once, pick one thing to deal with, or release and do what’s needed - time to adult! If you are being demanded of, tell that person no - you don’t have to explain or justify yourself.
If you need to lighten your workload ask someone to help you do certain tasks so you can focus on the things only you can do.
If you aren’t giving yourself fun time, intuitively check in with yourself and carve out time to play!
If you need to spend more time with friends, do it! Go for a coffee, hang out, and connect! Even if only for an hour, it doesn’t have to be more than feels good to you!
If you’re in a toxic environment, workplace, and don’t like your job, start applying for new ones, or start that business you want to pursue. (Only leave asap if you can afford to do so and you have a buffer!)
If you are still in a karmic relationship, its now time to put you emotional wellbeing first (well it was always the time …) and physical safety if there is abuse. If you are in danger please seek professional advice and help because leaving can be the most dangerous time to leave, so try to do so in the safest way possible.
If you are with a karmic I would suggest prioritising dealing with this because everything else will likely fall away as a result of leaving, and if you stay everything else you try to do for yourself will be impacted by their behaviour on you - whether covert or overt, it eats away at you. I also suggest if you feel safe to do so, to reach out to your twin flame for love and support at this time, if you need to. They may help you out by giving you a place to be, and whilst I would generally recommend taking time out to be single after an abusive relationship, depending on where you are at in yourself, you maybe ready to connect with your twin flame to have a relationship, everyone is different. Especially if you have known for a long time you do want to be with them - but take time out for yourself when you need it to re-adjust and process things, and be open and emotionally honest with yourself and your twin so you can work through things as you go.
I feel a lot of sadness, misery, and burnout here, and a feeling “I will never be with my twin flame if I keep doing the same stuff over and over” there’s a strong vibe of “I can’t do this anymore - I am not the person I once was, or thought I was” and a sense of stepping back out of that false self and old life - everything suddenly changes, and you may find you just walk away from ALL of it (a huge fuck it moment) and straight to your twin flame to tell them everything.
The twin whose on the other side of this, may find that things in their own life have shifted to create space for their twins to enter, both of their own choosing, or because life has re-arranged things to happen that way as we stop trying to control everything out of fear!
If you feel this resonated and helps please comment, share and consider booking a reading or spellwork with me if you feel you need more personal help and support in your twin flame journey
One cycle of your life is ending, a successful completion of a phase that now enables you to get out into the world and be seen in the next stage of your union process. There may have been travel involved to see your Twin Flame recently or coming up - if a situation occurs to see them, do so! The connection is asking you to both come together now to be seen as a Twin Flame pair. An improvement in life circumstances may make it easier to connect with your Twin Flame now, even if they live a world away.
Divine Masculine: 7 Swords (r)
Hmmm…this feels like a karmic partner situation has or is maybe soon to blow up, for those in separation but have a “third party” involved blocking union. This feels quite volatile, and there maybe an argument and being “caught out” by a karmic partner to do with the Twin Flame situation that you cannot back out of or deny. Disloyalty to yourself shows up by choosing a karmic, and they are often fear based connections we try to cram into a story of “love” in denial of the truth.
Whether we are trying to protect ego, or fear retribution, it seems for the masculine (and the masculine aspect of DF’s) both sides may have been or be about to be exposed in their connection by a karmic, perhaps even publically, or at least in a way that may lose (false) friendships and supporters that were built from the shaky foundations of a karmic connection. This may also lead into losing homes, jobs, and other things you have built together.
You may also discover that your Karmic has actually been unfaithful and lying themselves and although you knew this either consciously or had fears / suspicions they are likely well founded and this may come out too. Whether the lies and infidelity on the karmic side gives you cause to leave, the fact you are aware of your own actions leading you to this moment, will give you greater empowerment to do the right thing and leave the karmic. It will be a great relief and whilst you will grieve not so much what was lost with the karmic, but what you could’ve had with your twin had you chosen from love, from the start.
The energy between you both: Knight of coins
Physically you may both feel blocked from union because of more material circumstances like physical health, being in a physical relationship with a karmic, money issues, etc - none of these are real reasons in themselves, more like fear based “excuses” the ego clings to. With this awareness you can flip the energy and take the next step towards Union by making a choice and taking right action towards your Twin Flame (on both sides) - and suggests a physical meet up is needed / in order to start taking practical steps into union and building a real love based life together.
Over all I would say the positivity of the feminine side and influence of the world o resides the lesser cards energies, so tap into that “building your own world with your twin flame” energy to help get you out of the blocks you perceive and help shift your mindset to a more positive framing of things.
So whatever happens - and this energy can be over the next few days or weeks either side of valentines, if you feel this resonated and comes to pass please let me know, I love to hear feedback and if you found this helpful!
